Metaldoc
11-23-2005, 07:01
A golden, glistening bird proudly sits in the center of the dining room table, as grandma calls everyone to dinner.
Eight-year-old Jenny happily brings her four year old brother to the table. Grandpa, dad and Uncle Barney get up slowly with a long look backwards trying to get a glimpse of the tight end catching a pass and being forced out of bounds at the twenty. The game continues noisily in the background without them.
"Who'll say grace?" grandma asks.
Grown-ups look awkwardly at each other in strained silence.
Finally Uncle Barney snickers and parrots the word "grace," and laughter spills over the tension.
Grandma steps in. "Jenny, why don't you say the prayer you learned in Sunday School when you were in kindergarten."
She recites the prayer mechanically. The feast begins.
Embarrassed silence replaces thanksgiving, gluttony displaces gratefulness.
Thanksgiving--an expression of gratitude to God for benefits received--is too often absent from our hollow holiday. There is, however, an ancient custom which can reclaim the day.
We read, Jesus "took the seven loaves and the fish, and when he had given thanks, he broke them and gave them to the disciples."
At the Last Supper Jesus took bread and gave thanks, lifted the cup, gave thanks and offered it to His followers.
Jesus always prayed before meals.
We should too. A simple prayer of thanks at each family meal of the year will gradually restore thankfulness to us. As our children see us humble ourselves to thank our Creator, they too learn to be grateful.
Thanksgiving was never meant to be shut up in a single day.
This habit of family thankfulness can begin round our tables this Thanksgiving--the first of many prayers of thanks to be offered.
This year, be a biblical man and lead by example. Offer a heartful prayer of thanksgiving and not a smart aleck "Grace".
All can pray, not just the children, but thankful moms, dads, aunts, uncles and grandparents.
Eight-year-old Jenny happily brings her four year old brother to the table. Grandpa, dad and Uncle Barney get up slowly with a long look backwards trying to get a glimpse of the tight end catching a pass and being forced out of bounds at the twenty. The game continues noisily in the background without them.
"Who'll say grace?" grandma asks.
Grown-ups look awkwardly at each other in strained silence.
Finally Uncle Barney snickers and parrots the word "grace," and laughter spills over the tension.
Grandma steps in. "Jenny, why don't you say the prayer you learned in Sunday School when you were in kindergarten."
She recites the prayer mechanically. The feast begins.
Embarrassed silence replaces thanksgiving, gluttony displaces gratefulness.
Thanksgiving--an expression of gratitude to God for benefits received--is too often absent from our hollow holiday. There is, however, an ancient custom which can reclaim the day.
We read, Jesus "took the seven loaves and the fish, and when he had given thanks, he broke them and gave them to the disciples."
At the Last Supper Jesus took bread and gave thanks, lifted the cup, gave thanks and offered it to His followers.
Jesus always prayed before meals.
We should too. A simple prayer of thanks at each family meal of the year will gradually restore thankfulness to us. As our children see us humble ourselves to thank our Creator, they too learn to be grateful.
Thanksgiving was never meant to be shut up in a single day.
This habit of family thankfulness can begin round our tables this Thanksgiving--the first of many prayers of thanks to be offered.
This year, be a biblical man and lead by example. Offer a heartful prayer of thanksgiving and not a smart aleck "Grace".
All can pray, not just the children, but thankful moms, dads, aunts, uncles and grandparents.